Most matchmaking is surface-level. Ours begins with the most important relationship you'll ever have - the one with yourself. Here's exactly how we work.
Our 148-question assessment is unlike anything you've encountered on a dating app. It explores three dimensions of who you are in relationship - your Attachment Style, your Connection Type Ray, and your Defense Style. It takes about 12 minutes and is completely free.
Once you've completed the assessment, our team personally reviews your results. We don't use an algorithm. We read your profile the way a thoughtful friend would - looking for the emotional, energetic, and relational patterns that make you uniquely you.
When we find someone whose profile genuinely complements yours - not just on paper, but at the level of nervous system, energy, and emotional pattern - we make a curated introduction. You'll know exactly why we think you're a match before you meet.
Your assessment results and personal details are never shared with other members or third parties without your explicit consent.
We never share your contact details without both parties agreeing to the introduction first.
All personal information is stored securely and handled in accordance with privacy best practices.
You can request to update, pause, or remove your profile at any time - just reach out to our team.
Takes 12 minutes. Your results are shown immediately.
Our team reads your results and may follow up with a brief call or message.
We actively look for compatible matches within our growing client base.
You receive a personal note from us with context on why we think you're compatible.
We follow up and are here to support you as things develop.
The assessment is free, takes 12 minutes, and gives you immediate insight into how you connect - whether or not you go further with MDM.
Take the Free Assessment