Trust & Safety

Our Standards

Modern Day Matchmaking was created to offer a more thoughtful, private, and intentional way to meet someone.

No public profiles. No endless swiping. Every introduction is intentional and human reviewed.

Everything we do is designed to support a high-quality, respectful community of people who are genuinely looking for a meaningful relationship.

Selectivity

Who We Accept

We are selective about who we invite into the community. Not everyone who applies is accepted. This helps ensure a better experience for everyone involved.

Members are accepted based on:

Relationship readiness
Alignment in values and communication
Respect, integrity, and emotional maturity
Who This Is For
Ready for a real, committed relationship
Values intentional, thoughtful introductions
Open, self-aware, and emotionally available
Respectful, honest, and ready to show up
This May Not Be a Fit If
Looking for casual or non-committal dating
Prefer high-volume or app-based matching
Unsure what kind of relationship you want
Not ready to invest time in the process

Each Founding Member is reviewed on a rolling basis. First introductions are planned for late summer 2026.

Safety

Screening & Verification

Every member goes through a review process before being accepted. Our goal is to build a community of real, relationship-minded individuals who are showing up with intention.

This may include:

Identity verification
Application and profile review
Background screening via Checkr
Privacy

A Private & Discreet Experience

There are no public profiles. Your information is never shared without your knowledge, and introductions are made thoughtfully and privately.

We believe meeting someone should feel natural, not exposed.

Respect

Community Standards

We expect all members to engage with respect and intention. Members who do not meet these standards are removed from the community.

We do not tolerate:

Inappropriate behavior or harassment
Dishonesty or misrepresentation
Disrespectful communication of any kind
Our Approach

Thoughtful, Human-Curated Introductions

We do not rely on algorithms or volume. Every introduction is considered based on compatibility, readiness, and overall alignment.

We prioritize quality over frequency, because the right introduction matters more than many.

The Process

What Happens Next

1

Submit Your Application

Tell us about yourself, your values, and what you're genuinely looking for in a relationship.

2

We Review for Fit and Alignment

Our team personally reviews every application. We assess readiness, values, and overall compatibility potential.

3

You Join Our Vetted Member Pool

If approved, your profile is added to our private, curated member community. No public profile — completely discreet.

4

Introductions Begin

When strong matches are available, we reach out personally to facilitate a thoughtful, human-reviewed introduction.

Timeline

A More Intentional Process

We are building this community carefully. Introductions begin once we have a strong and balanced member base.

Timing varies based on fit and availability, and we are always focused on making meaningful, well-aligned connections rather than rushing the process.

Each member profile is carefully reviewed. First introductions are planned for late summer 2026.

Our Promise

Our Commitment

We are committed to creating a space where people feel respected, comfortable, and genuinely optimistic about meeting someone.

This is not a high-volume dating service. It is a more intentional way to meet the right person.

Respected throughout the entire process
Comfortable with how your information is handled
Optimistic about the possibility of meeting someone real
Interested in Joining?

If this resonates,
we'd love to meet you.

Apply for membership and tell us a little about yourself and what you're looking for.

Apply for Membership

Every application is personally reviewed by our team.